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"I'm broke and need $1,000 today, how do I do sex work?"

Lets chat a little about asking sex workers how to do sex work when you aren't in the industry.

Before you ever do, and before I get into the nuance of it:
1. Google the kind of sex work you want to do. Find subreddits, FB groups, websites, Twitter accounts, etc. Literally spend a week doing this.
2. Look at sex workers who are DOING THE SAME KIND OF SEX WORK you want to try. What is their online presence? How do they advertise? Do you see others with a similar look to you? Do they offer consulting? (If so, there you go. Pay them for consulting if they seem legit.)
3. Come up with a list of questions you have for a sex worker in the same line of work who might be able to help you.
4. YOU AREN'T GOING TO MAKE 1K ON DAY ONE, ALMOST EVER.
5. Go look at my links on FOSTA. Now is not a good time to enter the industry. At all.

Okay, lets talk nuance.
Sex workers work their asses off behind the scenes.
We are CONSTANTLY working. Branding, grooming, advertising, building a client base…

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